Chang Min and I presented about Cohabitation this week. We thought It will be good topic to debate. Actually It is very serious problem now. Especially, Koreans still have negative views about cohabitation. So did I. But After I went to the college. I saw a lot of couples who live together. I was pretty shocked. They lived together without notice to their parents and they easily met together and easily broke up.
It is big problem in our social because almost Koreans are conservative. As I know, In case of other countries such as France, It is usual thing. So Korea is changing like them little by little as result of provided their culture.
In the case of my friend, He has been lived with his girl friend for 2years. They parents don't know that so far. They seem that will be marrying after graduation. But after marrying, Will be there something new? Because they are living as wife and husband until now. I guess they cannot feel newly married life.
Of course, There are some advantages. They can save money as shared their budget. Futhermore; they can spend much time with lover. So, If I have chance to live together with my girlfriend. I do that under such condition that I will marry her. Because it is good chance to know her deeply. People usually try to tell and behavior only good things for their. They conceal their weaknesses. So I can't know well about her even if I make a long relationship with her.
Someone asked me that assuming your wife has cohabitation experience with her x-boy friend, What do you do? I really confused after receiving this question. Actually, I always think that past events don't matter between couples. Of course I will be disappointed with her. But I will try to understand her If she really like x-boy friend.
I think debate of cohabitation continues for a long time.
I disagree with you. I don`t think we need to live together to get to know each other deeply. We are human. We don`t always have to be perfect. We can solve the problems together through marriage life. That`s what life is all about.
답글삭제I can't understand your opinion. So do you agree with cohabiation or not? anyway, the purpose of cohabitation is usally bad. So i think through cohabitation knowing each other is just excuse
답글삭제I think that this topic is little bit controversial problem so that he just wrote that kind of opinion. But personally, I totally agree with cohabitation even if my ex-girlfriend tell me she did it before. Because most important thing is current situation.
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